Wow! 1 Already by Peta Kenningham aka Petiepops

There are only 5 more days until the girls turn 1. I can't believe that it has been a year already. I have watched them grow and change and it is amazing. Babies one day.... little girls the next. People often tell you that time goes quickly and you just nod politely and agree, but secretly you are thinking that it is always going to be different for me.... but in reality, it is not. You feel yourself coming out of that dark, dark which seems to hang around for anywhere between 3 to 6 months and begin to really enjoy this special time but then along comes the first birthday! I am looking forward to celebrating this milestone with my girls and can't wait to see where this loving journey takes me next! Peta

Time flies when you're having fun? by helseyc

I can remember someone telling me pre birth of the twins, that the first year is a blur. At around 6 months I thought, this isn't a blur...I remember it all! But now the girls are 9 months, I think I understand what they meant. The first year is a blur because it just happens so fast. I cannot believe I've been a mum to 3 under 3 for 9 months now! Time flies!

Yes it flies when you're having fun and it flies cause you're in a routine! I feel the pressure of getting everything done "in time!" I feel like I rush through my day, here and there and don't achieve much. I know most mothers say that, but it really is only now that I am realising this myself.

I always feel like I'm on a time limit too. Nothing is done leisurely anymore. I need to get things done inbetween the morning sleep and the lunchtime sleep. Then I have to be back in time to x,y,z!

Yesterday, I ducked out whilst all 3 were sleeping (the bonus about having a husband work from home) and did the check in as to how long I could go for as Vic is usually in and out during the day. I had 1.5hrs...to put my camera in to be serviced (Claudia dropped it and it's now broken - boo hoo!), go to Myer to get knee hi "nearly black" stockings for my concert on Sunday, buy Claudia some leggins for Winter and buy a birthday present for a buddy of mine who turns 40 this weekend.  I seriously flew to each different shop - in 3 different suburbs and got home just in time. Vic asked me how my time off was? That wasn't time off! That was me working!!! I didn't even get time to eat lunch so when I got home I made something to eat and with the first mouthful swallowed...I hear the wakings of a baby!

Time is precious! Time to myself, time with my husband and of course the time I spend with my 3 little cherubs. I must stop and remember to breathe and do not wish away this precious time with the little ones.

I had planned to finish this entry and then eat lunch, but again, time has caught up with me....Claudia is awake from her lunchtime sleep and is walking towards me with a beautiful smile on her face. Through the monitor I can hear the waking babbles of two beautiful babies. Lovely!

Have Mercy Twins - UN golden days (like yesterday!) by helseyc

An ungolden day would be yesterday. It started with the usual morning routine. Got all girls fed, dressed, myself dressed and in the car ready to go to the gym within an hour only to find, the car won't start! Flat battery. Some idiot (moi) left the key in the ignition and on accessories! Bright!
Oh did I tell you, I let my RACQ lapse as we received 2 years free road side assistance when we bought the car new...over 2 years ago! Yes, it lapsed in Dec 09....so $139 later and I've rejoined RACQ and paid for the year and then $110 later still, I've bought a battery charger and am out of "car that carries all 3 kids" action for 24hrs. Gone are my days plans, $250 and my happy dispositon. I'm not "in like" with people right now!

I'm annoyed I can't make it to the gym as I've 3 weeks left of my 12 week challenge. I HAVE to get to the gym! I HAVE TO!! But what can I do?

Family back up is called in (as Vic is STILL overseas) and I take Vic's car to my chiro appointment. I am easily annoyed by some young lass who decides to talk at top volume on her phone in the waiting area. I'm giving her that "are you for real" look with my eyes but she doesn't make eye contact with me. I'm disappointed to be honest. My chiropractor is lovely, even Vic usually asks "how was your boyfriend today" when I go and see him. He has witnessed first hand a few "ungolden days" moments. I told him once that my life is now a circus. I feel often like I"m on show, but no one is paying for a ticket to see it! I'll never forget a friend of mine going to see the same Chiro after our visit once. She had her two children with her. At the end of the appointment she said to our Chiro (who didn't know we knew each other - obviously....) "thank goodness this is a family clinic, thanks for letting the kids sit in!" To which my chiro replied "that was nothing, we had a woman in here this morning with a toddler and 6 month old twins - now that was full on" My friend goes "Oh, you mean Helen?" "Oh you know her"says our Chiro....and she has relayed thsi story to me! So we're being talked about - our ungolden moments exposed to all clients?  I mentioned at the next appointment and he said I swear she's the only person I told and it was cause she had two kids in here! Anyway, today he makes me smile and cracks my neck...twice, and I'm on my way. I duck to the local coffee/eatery place in New Farm. I order...about 5-10min later, a lady walks in and orders. She is served first. I'm annoyed by this.

Does anyone see a theme with me?

I eat and leave. It was totally delicious so have a contented tummy, but not heart.

I arrive home to two babies that have woken from their day sleep with runny noses and are now coughing! GREAT! Now I won't be able to put them into the gym creche. There goes my challenge! Why does everything have to be so hard? Woe is me and all that!

I'm on the downward spiral now, it's going to take every amount of energy to pull me up.
Then the 2.5yo tantrums begin. It's nearly 3pm....witching hours are imminent. She starts to cry, the babies are grizzly and crying too.

I admit defeat and cry with them. It is now 3.30pm and I am counting down to the time that they will all be in bed. I'm also wondering when is a "respectable" time to have a wine?!?!?

This single mother gig - is bloody hard work. I have realised more than ever just how well Vic and I work together and tag team so that we can each get done those day to day tasks and planned activities.

Hats off to all the single mums and how they cope with their ungolden days too.

Things will be better tomorrow. They always are.