Everyday we as multiple birth parents endure negative & unwelcome comments in one form or another from people who truly don't understand what it is like to be blessed with multiples.
Here are some of the classic comments that we have endured in the past.
"I feel so sorry for you" - Sheree - Mum to twin girls
"The only reason why you have twins is cause of ivf" -
Sherie - Mum to twin girls
Danielle Glodowski Posted - I was originally pregnant with quads and I lost one baby at 16 weeks. People had the nerve to say, "Bet your glad you won't have to take care of 4 babies although I'm sure three will still be difficult" -- or they would assume I had IVF (which I didn't - just Chlomid). They would actually ask how we could afford "the treatments" -- I had to ask what they meant! So ignorant! Who raised these people to act this way!!
"Ooh double trouble" - Alana - Mum of twins
"Awe one boy and one girl, your done" - Well actually I was hoping on 4 & 5 so NO, IM NOT DONE!!! - Sherri - Blessed mom of boy girl twins
Nicole Seamons Posted - My twins are only 3 weeks old and already i have a list. As they were prem and in SCN the comment thats most peeved me is "at least you get a full nights sleep" uumm no between expressing and worrying about my babies i didnt get any sleep! Also as been said before "you must have your hands full" not sure what it is about this one everyone says it when they find out i have other kids besides the twins
"Oh yuck! I'd hate to have twins. I'd want to die" - Annie - Mum of twins
"Look here comes double trouble oh you poor woman "
Louise - Mum to twin girls
Kim Parker - Got asked what did she did wrong in a past life.
Annie Barker Posted - When I was preg with my twin girls I stayed quite small.. Someone asked me 'are you really having twins' and when I said 'gee nah, I'm making it up' they proceeded to say "there must be something wrong with them then"
Feel free to post your negative comment below. And please don't worry we will have some positive comments "COMING SOON"
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